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Win a Free (and Tasteful) Boudoir Photo Shoot in Lexington, KY with Lisa Hammond Photography

Win a Free (and Tasteful) Boudoir Photo Shoot in Lexington, KY with Lisa Hammond Photography

UPDATE:  You’ll never believe it but… The winner of the Free Boudoir Session with Lisa Hammond Photography lived too far away to Redeem her prize. (Though she considered a 12 hour round trip drive to use it, whew!) So rather than pick another winner, we’re going to make EVERYONE a winner by offering $50 off to anyone who entered the contest and who’s interested in booking...

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Reader Question of the Week: How Can I Get My Wife More Interested in Sex?

I’m often asked by husbands, “How can I get my wife more interested in sex?” Sexual desire is complicated, but you can help your wife want sex more if you deliberately cherish her heart by practicing the 5 P’s. 1) Pursue your wife. You were “a man with a plan” when you were courting her. Don’t stop pursuing her just because you caught her. Wives want to be wooed. Ask...

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5 Suggestions for Helping a Sexually Abused Husband

5 Suggestions for Helping a Sexually Abused Husband

    One in six boys will be sexually abused before age 18. Apply this statistic to marriage, and you’ll quickly see that almost 20% of husbands have been sexually abused as children. How can a wife help her husband if she suspects (or knows) he was sexually abused?   First, let go of these false beliefs: “If I love him enough, I can fix him.” “I can make everything okay...

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Why I Can’t Quit Encouraging Wives to Have More and Better Sex

Why I Can’t Quit Encouraging Wives to Have More and Better Sex

“You lose your way when you lose your why. Write down the reasons why you can’t quit doing the work you’ve been called to do.” Michael Hyatt said this as he wrapped up the first Platform Conference this week. Those words are still ringing in my ears. I’ve been in a creativity slump for many months. Here’s why: I lost my way because I lost my why. I forgot why I started CWIVES. I...

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Valentine’s Day Victory in Your Bedroom

Valentine’s Day Victory in Your Bedroom

What is defeating you sexually? Wives can be defeated by: Lack of energy for sex: “I’m just too tired. Maybe once the kids are older and out of the house, I’ll have more energy for sex.” Simmering resentment toward your husband: “I’m still mad at him for ______, _____, and ______, so he can forget about sex until he figures out what I’m mad about and what he should do about...

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